Online dating meeting in person dinner
Limiting the time of the first date is a safety precaution: if you end up on a nightmare of a date you’ve already established your “out”.
She was very nice and we got along well so I was willing to communicate but let her know I’d be talking to others while she gained comfort.
Other times, people are just reluctant to meet you because they are still trying to decide if they like you.
After a while, any of these cases is a waste of your time.
By this point you have talked back and forth twice and can measure how well you are getting along.
You will be able to judge the situation better as you communicate: sometimes you’ll get a date on your first email, other times you may realize a few weeks of communication would be best.